Brilliant, annie! That's great that you got relief! And that was very clever of you to translate the complaint into something that would get you what you needed, instead of struggling with someone else's prejudices. Very strategic!
And, yes, looking at this travail as a re-birth is a very productive was of re-framing it -- again turning it into something you can benefit from.
You're allowing yourself to strategize and get more of what you want!